Despicable: Mom Seemingly Forces Son To Identify As A Girl

If you think that title is despicable enough, you better grab on to something because we’re just getting started. This train of messed up situations is only just beginning to leave the station.
 
Allow me to give you the context. In Texas, a father is fighting for custody of his son, particularly after his ex-wife’s claims that their 6-year-old son is actually a transgender girl.
 
According to court documents, the boy only dresses in girl’s clothing when he is with his mother, who has also enrolled him in first-grade under the name of “Luna”. The boy chooses to wear boy’s clothing when he’s with his father, identifies as a boy with his father, and “violently refuses to wear girl’s clothes at my home,” according to the boy’s father.
 
According to The Federalist, the mother is accusing the boy’s father of child abuse “for not affirming James (the name of the young boy) as transgender.” She is also looking to strip the father of his parental rights and “is also seeking to require him to pay for the child’s visit to a transgender-affirming therapist and transgender medical alterations, which may include hormonal sterilization starting at age eight,” according to The Federalist.
 
The father has also been legally barred from “speaking to his child about sexuality and gender from a scientific or religious perspective and from dressing his son in boys’ clothes; instead, he has to offer both girls’ and boys’ outfits,” according to the Daily Wire.
 
A gender transition therapist has diagnosed the boy with gender dysphoria (and I’ll get back to this topic momentarily). According to the therapist’s notes, James chooses to identify as a girl when he’s with his mom and identifies as a boy when he’s with his dad.
 
The Federalist reports: “[A] dossier filed with the Dallas court says that, under the skilled eyes of the therapist, the child was presented two pieces of paper, one with the word ‘James’ and one with the word ‘Luna,’ and asked to pick the name he preferred. When the appointment only included his mother, James selected Luna, the name and gender he uses at his mother’s home and in his first-grade classroom. When the appointment was only with his father, however, James pointed to the boy name James, not the girl name.”
 
Apart from that, according to the father, people around James such as the parents of the boy’s friends and a church leader all say that they “have only seen the six-year-old identify as a male,” according to the Daily Wire.
 
Now, this is a whole lot to cover, but you can just see the level of evil and sheer despicableness of the situation. The boy is only 6. He attends first-grade. He doesn’t know exactly what’s going on here, or why his mother has him identify as a girl, wearing girl’s clothes, when he feels he’s a boy, and overall is largely confused.
 
It doesn’t help either that the therapist has diagnosed him with gender dysphoria when that’s very clearly not what’s going on here.
 
Anyone with even a shred of common sense can tell that the mother is forcing the boy to wear girls’ clothes and call himself “Luna” and identify as a girl at school. And she has the audacity to claim the FATHER is the one ABUSING the boy?! I don’t think I’ve been this mad since I wrote the article talking about the sheer evil of pro-abortion people who are more than okay with killing babies with absolutely no regard for the babies’ life.
 
I cannot emphasize and put into words just how sickeningly evil this is. From the context given by both court documents and the Federalist report, it’s easy to see that the mother is the one putting pressure on the boy.
 
When alone with his mother, James will say to his therapist that he is a she; that his name is Luna and that he is a girl. What else is he supposed to do AT THE AGE OF SIX?! I don’t know exactly what’s going on inside the mother’s home, but it’s clear to me that she abuses him, at least psychologically. As a result, it would not be out of the realm of possibilities that she would potentially abuse him physically as well, should he answer “wrong” and say that he is a boy and his name is James.
 
The boy, at that age, is very clearly afraid of what his mother might say or do on the way home or inside the home when they are alone, so he goes along with his mother’s wishes. I can’t really blame him, either. If he ticks her off, who knows what she might do? I’ve been in a similar situation with my own father (though not about my gender identity because even he is not that stupid) where if I ticked him off, there was a decent chance of physical punishment (apart from corporal punishment). He never went too far, thankfully, but the fear was there sometimes. It wasn’t often that he would do that, but it has happened in the past, so I never dared take my chances.
 
So the boy, if he’s being abused psychologically, could likely also be victim of physical abuse apart from psychological abuse. Although, since the mother is fighting for custody over him, I doubt she would do anything to him until it’s all settled, lest she lose the case.
 
But still, it’s quite clear to anyone who has some sense of decency that this is not okay at any level. It’s definitely not okay for the mother to be psychologically abusing her own child, causing him to perhaps believe he is a girl (though it seems like he has some logic within him, if he is more comfortable around his father and tends to act more like the boy that he is when not pressured otherwise), and it’s definitely not okay for her to be planning a life-changing “treatment” (I’m putting that in quotation marks because anything that supposedly helps someone be something they definitely are not is not actually helping anyone. Treatment is supposed to make someone better, and this would make things worse).
 
Matter of fact, Walt Heyer, a former transgender female and author of “Trans Life Survivors” warns that the diagnosis of gender dysphoria for the child could ruin his life, in a similar manner to what he went through when his grandmother secretly cross-dressed him for almost three years when he was a young boy.
 
Heyer warns: “If we do not save [James] from a misdiagnosis, his next step is chemical castration at age eight, only two years away.”
 
And of course, that further speaks to the evil of this situation, that there are people out there who actually perform such life-changing procedures for such young children.
 
Now, I mentioned earlier that I would return to the whole diagnosis of gender dysphoria as a topic, and I will quickly mention it, but I’ve decided that it should not take much precedent in this article. All I was planning on saying about it, really, is the fact that I find it ironic that the boy is diagnosed with gender dysphoria when that has technically been ruled as not a mental disorder by the World Health Organization. You can’t be diagnosed with something that isn’t some sort of illness. A diagnosis’ purpose is to find what is wrong with you. So I find it interesting that in this conversation, we’re acknowledging the fact that gender dysphoria is a mental disorder, even acknowledged by the therapist, even if the therapist is misdiagnosing a kid being abused by his mother.
 
But such a point is largely tangential. It’s good to point out, but it’s not the main focus here. The main focus is the horrendous and messed up attitude this supposed mother has with her own son.
 
A mother is not supposed to confuse her own child, and certainly not force the kid into being something he doesn’t want to be. One argument the Left will always make regarding transgenderism is that “we should let people be who they are”. Well, where is the Left now? Why is this boy, who clearly wants to identify as a boy, being left in the dust? Where is the outrage from the Left of a woman not letting her child “just be who he is”?
 
It’s okay for a guy to identify as a girl, but not okay for a guy to identify as a guy? Is that the lesson to be learned here?
 
Again, I have not been this mad and annoyed at some people’s attitude since the articles discussing an abortionist wantonly aborting babies, not considering them human, and being so callous as to mention that she makes sure babies can’t scream by literally ripping out their throats.
 
I don’t think what this mother is doing is quite as evil as what that abortionist was doing, but it’s evil nonetheless. It’s despicable and that woman should not receive custody of her child. If anything SHE SHOULD GO TO JAIL FOR CHILD ABUSE!
 
Why is it child abuse for the father to let the boy be a boy but not child abuse for the mother to basically FORCE the boy to be a girl?
 
And where are those who supposedly stand up for “letting people be who they are”? This is even beyond the science of gender issues. This goes WAY beyond that. Never mind the fact that a boy can only be a boy and a girl can only be a girl. The boy ACTS LIKE A BOY and his mother is having none of that. Who in their right mind could say that this is okay in any shape, manner or form?
 
I pray for the father to win custody of the boy and pray that the mother find Christ, because she desperately needs Him, even if she hates Him (and I take it she does, given her behavior here).
 
This kind of evil cannot be allowed to continue growing and affecting more young children.
 
Romans 12:21
“Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.”
 
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Author: Freddie Marinelli.